What to Expect When Significant Others Have Lupus

• Don’t assume their symptoms are generic, as lupus manifests differently for different people
• Don’t pretend to be able to stay in the relationship if you can’t. This is highly important and is unfair to both parties involved. This by no means encourages people to leave their partners but means that should a partner be unable to provide the care needed, the attention of a professional care giver should be employed.