I've had the same job for 16 years it's physically demanding and gets worse every Xmas time. My right shoulder is in pain makes it hard to sleep at night. I sleep on my side as well. The pain extends down my arm and my index finger feels asleep. Oddly enough when I sleep on my left side keeping my right arm straight down and with a pillow between the legs it pains even worse and keeps me up all night. If I sleep on the side that pains. Then there is comfort it is like it is being compressed to pillows and it feels good and I can sleep. I know the ideal thing to do is sleep on my back I must train myself to do this but it is hard. I'm scared sleeping on the painful side will make it worse. Yet it's the only way I can sleep in comfort What can I do? This has been ongoing for many years.
This sounds like you have a c6 nerve root compression. I would advise a consultation with a spinal specialist (Neuro or Ortho, or even rehab).
Christopher B. Michelsen, MD, FAOA, FAAOS, FACS