I believe my 12 year old son has a binge-eating disorder, and this started after he tried out for the wrestling team. I think he's doing this to bulk up... How do I approach my son about his eating disorder?
Ask him to talk to older wrestlers if any of them struggled with eating problems.
Start with your pediatrician
Most children will give you a straight answer if you ask it directly. Would be careful not to label this as a disorder so soon. If he is trying to get on the team, this is reasonable.
Then gentle does or donts about achieving a reasonable goal. This would clarify what is going on. Good luck!
Here are two videos that may be helpful.
https://www.crchealth.com/find-a-treatment-center/texas-treatment-information/talk-son-eating-disorder/
https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-talk-to-your-teen-about-eating-disorders
Yes wrestling will do that. It’s all about being in a certain weight class. He will be fine. He has to or not be on any team. Let him get it out of his system, that’s all