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Why has my mother stopped eating in hospice?
My mother is in hospice care right now, but she's refusing to eat. I talked to her nurse and physician about it, and both said that it's not uncommon. Why has this happened?
2 Answers
Im really sorry youre going through thisits incredibly hard to witness. When someone is in hospice care, a loss of appetite and reduced desire to eat is very common, especially as the body starts to slow down. Its not usually a sign of suffering, but rather part of the natural process as the body begins to shut down.
Your moms nurse and physician are rightthis happens often near the end of life. The body no longer needs food in the same way, and forcing eating can sometimes cause more discomfort. The focus shifts to keeping her comfortable, calm, and supported in ways that feel peaceful for her.
Youre doing the right thing by asking questions and being present with her.
This is the body's natural reaction as it starts to shut down and in a way helps the body stay more comfortable.